Wanting a friend to text talk to
Up until a year agoI saw the world as a place where very few doors opened for me. At first I thought it was due to being extremely introverted.
Age: I am 30
My sexual preference: Male
Figure type: My figure features is quite skinny
What I like to listen: Opera
What is my hobbies: Listening to music
I probably won't get back to your text, and i'm done apologizing for it
Luckily, there are ways to turn things around and get them to text you first. Make yourself less available. Everyone loves a bit of a challenge. Make them work for your attention by not being too quick or eager to talk to them.
Why friends may hardly ever initiate contact to chat
Find out how much they like to text. They might be willing to indulge in it once in a while for people they really like. Give them a reason to reach out. What are the other reasons they might have to text you first? Do they enjoy talking to you?
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Make every conversation with them count. Whenever you see them or get a chance to talk, make it memorable. You want them to be thinking of you after the encounter is over. Break out your best conversation pieces, make them laugh, ensure that they have fun being or chatting with you.
Talking to someone about what's troubling you
Be okay with them not texting you. If you need them to respond to your messages or text first in order to feel good about yourself, you need to get rid of that mindset.
Neediness rarely appeals to anyone. You want to radiate confidence with a dash of indifference. Come right out and ask why they never text you first.
If you want that to change, call them out on it without being accusatory. Try to end every contact on a high note.
Talk to people on the telephone
If you want someone to text you first, you have to keep them wanting and coming back for more. You want them to see you and your interactions together in a positive light. Be flirty and playful.
Leave them thinking highly of you. Chill and wait. Ask them to text you later.
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